Biling baligtad sa kama, balisa na naman ako.
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No such thing as an unimportant day
BUSINESS MATTERS (Beyond the bottom line) By Francis J. Kong
Saturday, November 8, 2008
After many years of service, retirement day has come. There was a formal ceremony. A large crowd of employees gathered around to bear witness. And the following conversation took place between the president of the company and the retiring employee:
The president said: “As a symbol of our gratitude, we have created this special gold watch to serve as a reminder of your many years with the company. It needs a lot of winding up, is always a little late, and every day at quarter to five, it stops working.”
I started Monday of a particular week with giving a talk to a full-packed auditorium of students in a very well known university. And then this was followed by four continuous whole day leadership training seminars. Then excitedly faced the crowd of 6,000 teachers, gave a short talk designed to pay them tribute and inspire them to stick to their mission, meaning and purpose and then rush out of the convention center immediately after the talk, got on a car, went out of town, did a training on the next morning, got back in the same car and rushed home on the same day. This is the story of my life.
People close to me tell me, “Francis, you don’t have to work so hard!”
You see they don’t understand. How could I tell them I am not working?
While I may be physically tired I am most certainly inwardly fulfilled.
Inspired myself and energized by the smiles on the faces of the students, the senior executives of powerful business organizations and of course, my favorite audience the teachers; who in Heaven’s name could anyone ever thought about me working?
This is why I am absolutely convinced that there is no such thing as an unimportant day.
I would like to share with you this poem from an unknown source. (If you happen to discover who the author is, please do let me know so we can give proper credit.)
Don’t ever forget
Your presence is a gift to the world,
You’re unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be -
Take it one day at a time.
Count your blessings, not your troubles,
And you’ll make it through what comes along.
Within you are so many answers,
Understand, have courage, be strong.
Don’t put limits on yourself, Your dreams are waiting to be realized.
Don’t leave your important decisions to chance –
Reach for your peak, your goal, and your prize.
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying –
The longer a problem is carried, the heavier it gets. Don’t take things too seriously –
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
Remember that a little love goes a long way -
Remember that a lot goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment,
Life’s treasures are people… together.
Have health and hope and happiness,
Take the time to wish on a star. And don’t ever forget for even a day…
How very special YOU are!
God has created you for a purpose.
You did not come from apes. You are wonderfully and beautifully made.
Make sure you make a difference where you are and you do it today.
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The world wanted you to win as if you have the answers to the most pressing problems. Honestly, I don’t care on who will be the next US President but since the Americans had given you their vote of confidence, then I am sure that after having Bush around, you are a better alternative.
I don’t know your political platform and I don’t understand fully the repercussions if you’ll stop giving tax breaks to American companies, it’s your decision… but what matters to me is I hope that you will not commit the same mistakes that your predecessors did.
What I know right now is that the world is anticipating a new world order along with the rumors that a new quatrains of the prophecies of Nostradamus were revealed because of your landslide victory, nevertheless, I am optimistic that you are not an Anti-Christ.
I am confident that you will stop bullying other countries for your own nation’s gain. How many times have your soldiers engaged in war and yet could not justify the bloodshed nor could not define the purpose of your invasion.
Stop protecting criminals, dictators and start nurturing a culture of love.
Your soldiers are being killed because of the animosity against the US governments intervention in conflicts such as in Iraq and Afghanistan.
Are they the enemies or are our Islam brothers just protecting themselves from abuse and from exploitation that the American government is noted for?
Yes, you’ve been importing sugar but flooded the market with your M&M’s.
Yes, you’ve defended Kuwait against Iraq but was the US Government sincere in doing such or it only protects its interest in the vast oil fields?
How many persons must suffer abuse? How many civilians will be killed? How many women will be raped by your soldiers?
Obama, I sincerely hope that you will stop playing the role of a Big Brother to all of us. A real Big Brother never used and abused anybody, and the world is already tired of the endless conflicts that your country created.
Spare Condoleezza Rice from shame. She suffered enough protecting the Bush Government.
So I hope Obama, the new world order would be that of equality and peace.
Learn from the Miss Universe candidates, all they wanted is only world peace.
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Two years ago, while I was working in Jeddah I met a Saudi businessman probably in his late 40′s. I was assisting his son while on queue at one of our rides for kids and when I stood by the exit gate of the ride, he approached and thanked me and then we had a brief chat.
“How much do you earn here, my friend?” He politely asked.
“Around SR 3,5000 sir” I answered.
http://observers.france24.com/en/content/20081028-poverty-exists-saudi-arabia (with subtitle)
http://www.nawafnet.net/file-358.htm
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Yes, the cold winter breeze is now blowing all across Al Khobar. Erick told me a while ago that it already rained in Jeddah and as well as in Riyadh! Next stop, the Eastern Province… I hope!
At least for about four months we will be spared from the scorching heat; but will suffer from cracked lips (and bleeding!), hypothermia, depression (Pasko na!), flu, runny or stuffy nose, rheumatoid arthritis and a lot other cold related diseases.
I love the winter season in Jeddah, its more of a tropical winter climate and there’s no need for water heaters, shawls and scarves, or arm visors unlike here in Khobar were I experienced wearing mittens!
Ice caps were never worn in the Western Region but here its a best seller!
So, in a few days… we will be waiting for the alternating sand storms and occasional downpour that will signal the onset of the cold season.
Homesick na naman kami!
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November 1st would also mean a grand reunion for our clan… before! “Dati kasi si Tatay at Inang lang ang dinadalaw namin sa sementeryo.”
Now, Tito Eddie, Tito Mario, Tito Abet and Tito Carlos were laid to rest in different places that’s why it’s hard to be in one place anymore.
No more day-long nibbling and cracking of watermelon seeds, or collecting candle waxes; no more creepy ghost stories to spook the younger generation of Villaroman’s since most of my cousins who would sit with me atop the tomb of either Tatay or Inang had migrated already.
I miss Inang. I grew up with her while my sister Ana was Tatay’s favorite.
I also took care of her when she was already bed-ridden prior to her death.
Inang cooked our meal, she accompanied me to school, she woke me up for breakfast and basically me and Ate Judith were Inang’s pets!
Tatay is not so fun to be with because he was dead serious about everything. Everyday, he relaxed on his “duyan” while reading Manila Bulletin and when it’s bath time, “hihilurin niya talaga ang lahat ng banil sa katawan mo, gamit ang bato!”
Tito Mario loved so much mom’s eggplant-camote salad. “Ewan kung ano tawag dun pero sidedish ni mommy sa pochero yun.” A health-buff, we never expected that aneurysm took his life.
Tito Carlos was our Santa. He loves kids and he was extremely nice with me and my cousins while Tito Abet and Tito Eddie were considered untouchables by most of us!
Death is inevitable. But sometimes just thinking of how my uncles and grandparents brought us joys when we were kids still brings me that childish feeling.
Living with a large family who loves eating lechon and most likely dies with hypertension, life has been all fun before.
I just pray that they now enjoy singing with the angels and constantly look after us, like they did when they were alive.
“May the souls of the blessed departed rest in peace, and let perpetual light shine upon them.”
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